The most rewarding thing that has happened in my life was becoming a father. I’ve recently found out that I will be a grandfather and I want to spend time with my children, but I don’t see them as often as I’d like to. I’m hoping that getting into my own place will bring back some stability and rebuild my bond with them.
I’ve been in 2 long-term relationships over the past 20 years. My first partner was the mother of my children, and when that relationship ended our family unit broke down and so did my security - she took me off the tenancy for the home. After that, I didn’t have the confidence to find my own place. I stayed with my parents and other family members but I never had a long-term option. Then, I met someone else and we moved in together. When that relationship also broke down four years ago, I had nowhere to go.
I haven’t lived in my own place for a long time. I’ve been lacking my get-up-and-go. I’ve tried to reach out to the Council to ask for help but I’ve been turned away, and over the years I’ve lost my confidence. Now, I want to finally have my own place that I can call home. All I want is a happy, stable life.
It has taken a lot for me to reach out and ask for help. But joining Beam, I have felt positive and supported throughout my experience so far. I am truly grateful for their support and I finally can look forward to the future.