Over the last 10 years, the one thing that has kept me going has been my support network. My family, friends and 3 children have seen me go through some difficult times, but because of their support, I remain positive about the future. I have over 12 years of professional care experience so it's within my nature to be considerate and patient to those who are in my life too.
I first became homeless due to an abusive relationship. There came a point when it got too much and I fled with my children to my sister's house. I applied to the local council for help but due to my circumstances I was told I'd made myself homeless intentionally. After fighting my case and giving evidence from social services, I was offered temporary accommodation. A year later, we moved into a privately rented place, which is where I'm living today. Due to the pandemic, I lost my job and now I'm on the verge of being homeless again as I'm unable to cover my rent. Losing my job also meant that I've became benefit capped, meaning I'm eligible for even less benefits.
Being homeless with children is frightening, especially having to be in shared accommodation with others. Things started to improve for me when I worked together with the council to find a rented flat. I called them everyday and never gave up. I looked for properties myself, found a job to help my chances and was eventually was offered a property. My current situation makes me anxious as I've worked so hard to build stability and now it's at risk of falling apart.
Getting back into work will give me and my family the financial independence we need. I don't want to have to chose between paying the bills and putting food on the table anymore. My training will provide me with a platform to keep studying in the future and reach my goal of becoming a nurse.