I want more than anything to be able to give my children stability. I'm currently living in Temporary accommodation and it's so hard. My eldest child has autism and he really needs the stability and routine of having a permanent home, it can be distressing for him to be constantly uprooted.
I've always enjoyed working and being busy and I had to take time off work when I had my youngest child who is now 7 months old. I would like to be settled again. Life has been hell since my relationship broke down really badly.
I used to have a good job but after my ex left I was isolated with no friends and family where I lived. I had no choice but to move back to where my support network is, but living in temporary accommodation has been a really bumpy ride. It's so important for my mental health to have my own career and goals to focus on as well as handling the kids. I've worked in events management for a number of years. I like being helpful and resolving queries. I would like to use my skill set in a different way and pursue more administrative roles that can be flexible around childcare.
I feel very stressed out doing everything on my own, even though I feel like I am a strong person. I'm used to supporting other people's mental health and putting everyone else first. I've been doing everything on my own for the past few months so this help is really appreciated. It feels like a weight off my shoulders. It honestly means a lot to me and the boys. It feels like we've been stuck in a rut and it's been so hard looking for work that suits my children's needs. The cost of living has made affording childcare on my own seem impossible and this support is a giant breath of fresh air.